Then file harrasment charges or an order of protection if it continues so that she knows you mean bussiness.

Do you know an attourny that would write her a letter explaining the consequences of continued contact? Might scare her at least.

I still wonder about my H and his fantasy too but, anything goes I think in MLC and until they start to really come through the tunnel they hold onto them. at least from all of the research Iv'e done it seems that way. She was contacting also right? I think this is why he has such a hard time with it she is making it that way.

My H sees OW fantasy everyday at work and she trys not to be in the same area as him but thay do have to have contact at times. This has been confirmed by friends at work so I know she is being honest. I guess Im'e lucky there at least.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez