You are right, I know that, I know that my H isn't that sick and twisted that he would doing this to get me to leave. I told him yesterday that I know that he loved me when we married, and I know that changed when we were in the worst of things, and I know he loves me know. He is extremely confused, but I just find it so hard to understand why he wount let her go, he did sort of admit that she was a fall back if we didn't make it, but doesn't he understand that we wount make it if she continues to be on the scene. I haven't heard another thing from her, but do sort of live in dread that she is going to show up with something, or send me something showing he has been in contact again.
I think for right now we are just going to take things as they come, and see what happens
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!