I asked my OB/Gyn, whose office is downstairs from H and who delivered 2 of our 3 kids, to run every test. Of course I told him why, and he was just devastated. He knew my H, as everyone did, to be a wonderful, dedicated family man---the kind who always made time in his day to run downstairs to be with me for my appts. when I was pregnant. When H found out I had been tested, H had the nerve to get mad at me for telling my doctor!!
Oh, the selfish craziness of these a**holes is beyond belief.
Thank God I was clean, because even at the tender age of 20, when H and the OW started their affair, OW was FAR from being the innocent, good Christian girl she pretended to be. Blech. It's just nasty to think about.
Hope you are doing well.
TP
Me:40, xH:41 M:19 T:21 D14, S10, D6 IDLYA bomb:12/22/06 OW bomb (21 yr. old employee):12/23/06 H move out 2/07, OW move in 5/07 D papers served 6/07 D final Nov. 26, 08 :-(