I have been reading the discussion boards for a little while, but have never actually posted anything before, but feel like things are changing in my situation , so I was wondering if this is normal. My h and I seperated about 3 months ago and up until now, he has been fairly kind and friendly (although still emotionally distant), but in the last week or so, something definitely shifted! He seems irritable and grouchy around me,to the point that detaching from him has actually become easier because he just brings me down. We have 2 young kids, so we see each other almost everyday, but I have given him space and do not call him to chat, etc. (All the DB stuff!) We go to c every other week and that is the only time we bring up any r talk. I am so tempted to ask what is wrong, but I know that will get me nowhere! I am trying to "ignore" it as best I can, but whenever he leaves, I feel frustrated. Is this normal or could it be a sign that he is "done"???
M-33 H-34 Sep 7/17/2008 Married 9 years Togeher 14 years Kids- d-3, s-1
