You know I'm speaking from my own life experience, when I say that you have to stop being so nice!!! Sorry that your W is sick, but hey consequences. I think you should have said You're welcome to join me in our bed or you can sleep downstairs whatever you prefer. She's the WAS and you gave up your bed!!! That sucks!!! But I know you already know that, so I won't bring out the 2x4s...unless you do that again!!! \:\) Karen

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