Read that he admitted to living part time with OW. I know it kinda hurts to hear that, but if you are like me, its a RELIEF to hear the truth sometimes, isn't it? He is talking so openly with you because he feels safe around you. He has 'nothing' to lose anymore, since he already lost you. Make sense?

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He did let it slip that his OW has said a few harsh things about me.


This made me laugh because OW used to talk smack about me too. Yup, she told H to tell me I was a whore. Um, K. \:\) You responded correctly to H, and honestly, her bad-talking you made her look negative in H's eyes anyway.

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As I was sitting across from him I felt like I was not connected to him anymore. I felt like I was just sitting with someone that I had know for awhile, that is it.


I thought you and me were in the same spot emotionally, but here proves that you are doing much better than me in situations like this. That's great!!!

All in all, good talk. Glad you accepted his invite to have coffee.