Hi Gang, today was busy, went on a busy trip for today to observe another mfg. site. It went well there. Then I got invited to go to the best place to eat in Town with the 2 woman and 2 guys that I had worked with for the day. I called H to let him know I was going to be out and check on D. He didn't answer so I hung up. Well on the way back from the site H kept calling me -- 9 missed calls in 1 hour! I know H wanted to talk about the mfg. site but I figured I did not want to talk work (as in be his friend), When I got home he called again and asked about my day, I said it was great but I can't talk that I was on my way out with the work people. H said have a good time and I said I definitely will. H kept calling D asking to spend time with her and she said no. He called here about 9:30 and I still was not home..it was a db detached evening. I keep praying this will help.
T2L thanks for the advice. It was good...as always. I am working hard now.
Marisol, grateful for this site and friends that I have made here. We both pray for the same thing. Txmom, your right I was struggling but feel better for today. I think by detaching somewhat will help me. I just can't be on a Plan A yet. Emotions are too tough. Glad you are letting H stay with kids. Will keep him connected. One day at a time is all we can ask for. take care all.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
