Fish, there's nothing wrong with feeling some pain, there's alot to feel pain about! Your friends don't want to see you hurting but to say "move on" is not helpful to you. If you can't function or have any happy moments because you're so overwhelmed with pain then "stop it, move on" may be appropriate but that isnot the sitch! Fish, the pain will come and go, let it be. Don't dwell on it but don't just push it away in order to make friends happy. Pain is pain, it serves a purpose, it's part of the healing process. Respect it and you'll be fine
