Thanks ms b! I'll probably feel more optimistic after some sleep.

I guess my GAL has been working, because we had this interesting conversation this weekend:

W: You don't even care that we're separated
Me: Why do you say that?
W: You seem to be having a great time, getting to watch football all day, hang out with friends, do a lot at church, all the things you didn't get to do when we were married.

I told her that yes, I'm having a good time, but I'd much rather have her back. And if we do get back together, we can compromise and still get to do the things we enjoyed while apart. We never did that in our co-dependant state before. It was a great R talk. Funny how the GAL pisses the WAS sometimes ;\)

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK