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Originally Posted By: FriendlyGal
WTH is she doing on maternity leave a month before she's due anyway??? I wouldn't doubt thinking that way either. I'd do the same thing.
Corey, I would have thought the same thing as you. And yeah, why is she taking a month of maternity leave before the baby? When I had D8 I worked the day before I had the baby, and didn't work that day only b/c I was scheduled to go in for an am induction. Usually, people want to spend their leave with the baby I think. Karen


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She probably wants to spend the last month before troll jr arrives gambling and being in a smokey casino since she really will have a hard time going with a baby. Let's think this through ...If she is taking the full 12 weeks FMLA then she will only have eight weeks to bond (if she even knows what that is). Then how is she getting paid for that time? Is she expecting your H to cover for her? Gee what a mess.

Take care of yourself and your lovely sweet kids. We love ya.

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Hey guys! She is on maternity leave because he Dr. took her off and at Kaiser, they won't take you off any earlier than 4 weeks before the baby is due. When I had DD, when the Dr. took me off I was getting paid by disability, but since I had a job I was being paid by my work and I sent the disability checks to the office...something odd like that. Anyway, her "official" 6 weeks won't start until the day the baby is born. I don't know if she is going to take FMLA (its unpaid leave) or not and I don't really care. She got paid on Friday and is already broke. So staying out of the cardroom is not high on her list of things to "NOT" do. She "forgot" to make her car payment too...what an idiot.
I'm just sitting back and trying to take it easy right now. I don't think she will go another 4 weeks, but who knows.

Other than that, I'm just hanging out and trying to get some rest. I'm so tired right now. Been reading sitches, just not posting too much.


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You ARE going cuckoo. Thinking about too much baloney.

I know....I go into super spy mode too. Why this, why that?

Gonna drive ourselves "insane in the membrane"!

I can see you getting more fidgety the closer the day comes. Counting down the day 'till the big POP!! and the gushing green ooze. \:\)

Take care of you.


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Originally Posted By: hopeful4her

Gonna drive ourselves "insane in the membrane"!


Got no brain, crazy insane.... Cypress Hill, NICE!

Originally Posted By: hopeful4her

I can see you getting more fidgety the closer the day comes. Counting down the day 'till the big POP!! and the gushing green ooze. \:\)


Gushing Green ooze? That was freakin' hilarious. Humanoids from the Deep! I'm not sure if its so much shes going to give birth as spew forth.... Thanks for making me smile.
You are right. I'm getting really antsy the closer it gets but I'm actually doing ok all things considered. I'll post links later to my newest additions to the "pumpkin patch!"


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OK folks.

S13 and I are down to our vacation place (while we still own it) in Nov for 5 nights. Maybe we should plan the party? WE ALL FRICKIN NEED IT!


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If you plan it, they will come....


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Originally Posted By: Sugar and Spice
Gushing Green ooze? That was freakin' hilarious. Humanoids from the Deep! I'm not sure if its so much shes going to give birth as spew forth.... Thanks for making me smile.


Spew forth! LOL! Thanks for making me laugh, too!

(((((Stay strong, Corey)))))


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It's a curse.


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You have been hanging with our sweet Corey too long..she is cursed/blessed too!

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