I had to ask FG directions as to where to find you. I thought you had quit posting for the known reasons. So, I am sorry I have not been around, not that I could have given you any wise words of advice, more to "keep you company"...
I am sorry the notorious papers have reached your hands. But I am extremely content you seem to have been ready to deal with that also.
I really believe you and your H share a strange kind of love. It would take a lot of work to make him let go of all the control issues he has, that's for sure.
So, what's the status now? Waiting for the next thing to happen? Clearly your PMA is good and you are having a good life but what is your next step? Love xxx K