Thanks for your post, yoyowife. I'm just so unutterably furious that none of my family seems to give a d**n about their blood relative (my cousin) or care about taking the cheater to task for her behavior. And I have been through this situation before, not with my wife, but in a long, committed relationship. She came to me, admitted it, said it only happened once. She was said about her dad dying earlier that year, I was working a lot, the guy seemed to be a good listener. She found out later he was well known for pouncing on vulnerable women. She said please, we've been together 2 1/2yrs, she loves me, let's go to counseling. I told her to shove our 2 1/2 yrs up her hind end (I used a different word) and I didn't want someone I couldn't trust. That was 13 yrs ago. I don't know what's happened to her as she moved away weeks after I kicked her out. Back north somewhere, I think, with her mom's family. I couldn't care less and I pity whatever poor guy ends up with her. Maybe she wouldn't do it again, but if you've done something once, it's becomes easier to repeat the behavior. Anyway, I included that because I wanted everyone to know that I DO know what I'd do because it HAS happened to me.
