Funny you would say that about their searching, exactly what I was thinking. I have read where the unhappy spouses attitude and feelings are often sought after in the loyal spouse. It gives them all the more right to do what they did or are comtemplating. I can't explain everything that I feel, I do know I love her and my feeling that she is not the woman I fell in love with as of late is the biggest reason for my hope that she returns. I hope this person she has become moves out of the way long enough for my real W to see my light and find her way back. How are you doing?
