When I checked my messages and heard that statement from H, I first though "are you freaking kidding me?! how can he say 'I'm sorry if you don't have patience to wait for me' when that's what I've been doing for over 2 years?!" Then I thought "Dar, it's a mind game and he's putting this in your head. He cried divorce when he was mad, then turned it around and blamed you for 'asking' for a divorce." Now though, I hear that statement and I thank God that H opened up and said this to me. It's what keeps me going on bad days (like the weekend cancellations). So it's all good in my eyes.
