Man--It is good and bad that you are here. Bad, because you have a problem and you are frustrated and hurting. Good because you want to find a solution and you've come here for support and answers.

The A's that rocked your marriage were a symptom, not the problem. I think you understand that. What sort of direction did your C give you? When was the last time that you went to C?

Originally Posted By: Manwithaheart
Our problem is SEX
I think this is also a symptom of the bigger problem. How are you and your W communicating? She seems to be missing something that your R is not providing, that would explain why you heard ILYBINILWY and she had the affair. If you were involved with someone else, then you probably weren't happy with the M either?


M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.