And that is the challenge. We could date someone and make our spouse jealous and have a possible temporary reconciliation or not. But it would be for the wrong reasons.

Something else, more pure, has to happen. A realization of what is important in life must occur with our wandering spouses for a real change to occur.

In MLC or really any type of situation where a marriage is having issues, patience is on tall order and short in supply.

In the meantime, I think I need to find a new hobby. \:\)


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God