FG that is actually a wonderful statement from your h. It's hard for us on the outside and you so close to your h to see real progress.

Remind yourself that your h is not in a normal way right now, meaning he has issues that he needs to sort out. That could take a long time.

He will need your support, patience, and love along the way. Keep showing your h that side of you.

His is proving he doesn't want a D by going to c and telling you he doesn't want one. I know you want more, but he can't give that right now, so just sit back and be patient.

You are in a really sweet spot!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"