T2L - You are so awesome! Thank you for sharing such great information with all of us....it really made me think. Pls be sure to keep us updated on your progress! We all want to know!!

Hope - I agree it may be a stunt by her. I am doing my best to only focus on praying to God to have him come back to his family. I have asked Him for strength, courage, and power to forgive, to let go, and to guide him and I on a new path of starting over with each other. I know that as time passes he will come out of the fog and into the light. I have this overwhelming feeling that he thinks of us every day and how he wants to come back. As long as I have this feeling and hope I know God will show me the right way. If it is with my H he will show me, if it is not with my H then he will show me that as well.

Hope just continue to be strong. The slips will happen but it is the power to come back from those slips and take two more steps forward that you will begin to heal, feel better, and know that this is not the end. It is only the beginning to something better for all of us. Life is not meant to be easy. These times make us so much more stronger as individuals. We can all get through this no matter what!

I am so grateful to have found this site. I am grateful that I have a job. I am grateful for my daughter. I am grateful to have a loving family. I am grateful for my supporting friends. I am grateful for my health. I am grateful to be alive. We must all say what we are grateful for every day. At least five things you are grateful for, say them every morning when you wake up and soon you will feel your vibrations and energy change. I have been and it is slowly helping me get through the harder days much easier.


Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.