I feel for your D7. She was hoping that daddy would be upset with the notion that you would have a man other than him in your life.

I can't say for sure because I have no direct insight into his mind but even when a person doesn't want someone back in their life (and I doubt that is the case with your H), they still don't like it when someone is able to move on.

IMO, he is trying to get his daughter to accept his decision to be with someone else other than her mommy by acting as if it is okay for you to have someone else in your life.

I hope I am not making you angry but it is yet another sign of a selfish motivation comment.

Cinders, I have followed your situation for nearly two years now and I can say that (IMO, of course), of all people, your H would be devastated if you were dating.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God