I agree with Karen, you are a good father. You can't make that stuff up. It shows how good of a heart you have and why it is breaking over what is happening.
Fixer, something that I believe in every fiber of my being is that no matter what happens, I will not consider (although I may temporarily) what I have had to do as a waste of time. I know I could look at time I could be in the company of someone else as missed opportunities but I won't because things happen when they happen. The one regret I don't want to have is that I felt that I didn't take time to get to the more important things in my life such as my children, other family members and positive pursuits.
Take care buddy! It is worth it!
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God