I came across this in the SSM forum(Four basic models for initiation sex) and I thought I would give it a go (seduction) and try and set the scene for W for tonight and see how it went. W and I had this txt exchange.
L : Massage tonight after your shower. W: Who's massaging who ? L : I will be giving you one W: What, a massage ? L: Yes a massage, W: OKx L: Just thought it would be something different at the end of a long day W: Oh yes?.
I think the penny finally dropped, we'll see how it goes.