Be careful you don't rebound!!

[mishka422]

You are all so amazing and full of great advice.

Being that my D is nearly final I'm starting to have anxiety over the idea of a new R in the future. I like reading what you all have to say about rebounds. That's my great fear.

I have been growing and learning about myself and I don't want to go backward in that. After being with my STBX for 19 years my identity was completely wrapped up in him and our family. I had nothing for myself. I've found so many new things and people. It's awesome to come out of my shell and realize that I am a really interesting person that has a lot to offer the world.

I will continue reading all of your stories and advice.

Thank you again!!!