Ust wanted to update something. W is no longer in our bedroom. She has taken to sleeping with D11. Has been for 8 nights now. Guess I have claimed to bedroom as my domain!
This really sucks - but then everone generally knows that!
Buy new 'manly' sheets and a comforter. I got This set
You will get a response. Trust me, when I did this W knew I was letting her go. No more marital bed sheets she picked out, and the kids liked the fuzzy comforter and made a big deal about it.
And W was flustered because now, it's a mans bed.
And she wasn't invited into it.
This may be the single best idea I've read on here all year!!!