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Sorry to hear about the email thing, i had made the comment before about texing or being on the phone when she was here at my house visiting and i was here, no she goes to the bathroom often. lol
I think we know our spouses are moving on, at least halfway, but hanging on a little. I know thats the hardest thing for us. i know ur having a hard day, and my thoughts are with you alot.

You are being strong, i probley would have caved and answered my phone. Just still a little weak i guess. W just texted about D game tonight what time. Then if i thought she had a good bday. The Dr called me about 6 last night, im in for C on tuesday, asked me if i would be ok till then. I must have scared her! It normally takes about 6 weeks if u get accepted, mine was a week. Dr asked me about couples, hadnt thought about it. I mentioned it to W whenshe left. She didnt say anything, should i mention it again or let it go.

We have to detach, ur doing more than i am, i think that is why it is harder on u the last few days, on top of the stuff she is pulling. Your doing good, just hang in there buddy.


Me-39
STBXW-42
together 20yrs
M-17
Kids-2
D-18
S-16
Bomb-96
Bomb-2005
bomb- 3/2008 for a year
Separated 5/08
Filing in July
Today.... Slowly learning a new life!