Furiously PO'd. Got an e-mail this morning from OM! W used Outlook on S's computer at home to e-mail her OM last night. The default account was mine, I have it mirrored here at work so I can get e-mail. She apparently did or didn't realize it and sent him a message with my account. Just wondering who else she sent e-mail to using my name? Anyway, OM replied and it landed here at work in my inbox. Called W and asked if she had e-mailed OM, she said "Yes." Hung up and called ISP and told them to delete my account. Problem solved.
Talked to S and D last night. They are looking forward to Friday and seeing me. Had to talk to W and she asked about the flood at work. I told her that was three weeks ago and old news. She never cared about work, when I was at home. She said, "You seem really aloof are you OK?" I replied, "Yes, I am just fine." She then asked "You seem like you are moving on, is there someone else?" I just said "That is really of no concern." She said "Oh." "Why don't you want to talk?" she asked. I responded, "I really don't have much to say to you unless it is related to the kids or the D." I told her that I couldn't make the co-parenting class that she had scheduled for Monday and that I would rather take it by myself here because it is cheaper, than drive down there and pay $50 more. I asked "Is there anything else?" She said "You are really shutting me down." I said, "I am tired and ready to go to bed, so if there is nothing else, good night." She said "Good night," and I hung up. Went to bed and got a really good night's sleep. I still woke up at 4:20, but I was able to slumber until 6:15.
My W uses an e-mail account that is shared off of mine. So when I log into web-mail; I can see her's as well. That's why I've been able to know so much of what she's doing. Not that it helps me in a legal sense; but it keeps me grounded so that I know what I'm up against. I use it to sniff out her lies. That keeps me focused.
I know the shock of reading messages from OM; I've been reading them for so long now I'm numb.
As far as telephone conversation, good on keeping it terse. I just hope your tone was reserved. I know that's hard when you're po'd; but it's important.
Hope it gets better from here. Relax and remember we can't change them; just us!
