The reason, I don't say anything is I don't want their pity (I don't know if pity is the right word) I hear it all the time and it gets old Ahhhhhh !!! what happened, I'm so sorry, is there anything I can do, If you need anything you know you can call.

and yes H4H the questions "She not? Where is she? Can I have her number? What happened?" Blah blah blah

I know they are just trying to be nice, but I feel like a big failure and I really don't like all the questions.

Just keep swimming, just keep swimming

W41
M10.75 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
W files for D 07/18/08
Amount of time WAM spent with kids so far this month = 0.58333 days