You right no dating!!! I got carried away. You need to maintain the high road for your kids. Even if it means living like a monk for awhile. They will look back at this situation and how you handled it when they are adults and know their father did everything he could and was man of integrity. Your relationship with your girls will have a direct effect on who they date and marry. At least that is what I hope with my now 18 year old. She has been a daddy's girl and spoiled with love and attention. So far she has been good and has taken it easy on me despite getting her looks (and figure) from her mother!! Now she is in college...the rest is up to her.