Since my W was away my D10 I spent my scheduled night off together. She told me how sad she was that her mom was away. Then she asked if I was sad. I told her it would be nice if mom was home. Then D10 let me in on how she views my R with my W. She said I think mom likes you, but not alot. The she said I think you L mom. I asked why she thought this way. Well you and mom fight all the time she said. I told her how adults don't always agree on the same things. That when we fight we're fighting for something we feel is important. After that I didn't know what to say. Then D10 said, she thinks mom likes me alot but not a real lot.
Just as we pulled into the driveway, D10 spoke up one more time. She said that she doesn't think mom L's her. I asked if she thought I L'd her and she said yes. Then I told her that people show their L in different ways. She sais so Mom really L's me when she's yelling at me to brush my hair. I told her it was something like that.
As I tucked her into bed last night she told me she was afraid something bad was going to happen to mom's plane. I did my best to ease her worries.
