Just wanted to let you know I'll be thinking about you Thursday. You deserve so much better than him. I am confident you will get what you deserve. (((lwb)))
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
Over and over again you have demonstrated what a strong wonderful person you are. You deserve good things in life, and I believe they will come to you in time. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
lwb, I hope you can feel all of the love we are sending your way. Hopefuly once the D is over there can be some closure for you. I am looking forward to that as well. I have no doubt that you will move on to a better more loving relationship when YOU are ready. You have already hit bottom and pulled yourself back up. There is nothing you cant do! Good luck and I will be thinking of you.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
See? I don't cry all day, then I read these loving wonderful messages and it starts me up. But they are tears of gratefulness, one of many reminders that life IS good. I will carry all of your thoughts and prayers with me in the morning. Thank you.
I had some serious anxiety this morning. Couldn't sit, couldn't stay busy, couldn't focus. Guess what I did? Got a pedi, a new haircut and a massage. Got 3 inches off my hair (still long!) and the massage was just what I needed. Human touch. Boy, I miss it. I am feeling better tonight. Glad I am working to keep my mind off things.
Was listening to one of my many Maroon 5 CD's today and this song struck a chord today:
Good for you!!!!!! Sounds like the perfect "medicine."
Tonight... go buy some HOT outfit, new makeup, or get your makeup done tomorrow before you have to do this thing. And go "down with the ship" looking like the HOTTEST woman on earth!!! Yeeeeeah!!!
(My sister --we adopted each other during our divorces -- did this. She bought an amazing skirt and sexy shirt, and when she came in the lawyer just looked at her with this "Wow!" expression. Then he looked over at her husband and had this, "Boy are you an idiot!" look on his face).
I agree with ROOT, be the hottest, self confident woman we all know you are. This is not what you wanted but it isnt going to stop you! He can have his lonely life, you have a wonderful future just waiting for you when you are ready. Keep listen to Maroon 5.....I LOVE THEM! I could use a bit of the lead singer as well, he is so sexy!
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
Oh, I love Maroon 5 too! I think whoever writes most of their songs was an LBS definitely!!! Just wanted to come by and let you know my thoughts and prayers will be with you tomorrow. And I know there will be so many others also. ((((LWB)))))
Got 3 inches off my hair (still long!) and the massage was just what I needed. Human touch. Boy, I miss it. I am feeling better tonight. Glad I am working to keep my mind off things.