I am just wondering why you are telling them that she isn't home? As hard as the truth is, she doesn't live there anymore. That was a big hurdle for me. It took me almost a year to say we were separated, though not legally, and by then he had filed.
Life doesn't always deal a fair hand, the trick is to still win the game with the hand we are dealt.
Hugs, Jeff. I am still keeping an eye on you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory