You don't know how you will react until it happens to you.
I always thought I would be like you TnGuy, but when it happened I realised just what I AND my children would lose if I walked off. I loved my H and I knew that my behaviour had contributed to what he did. Life isn't black & white.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength