Thank you so much for checking in on me!!! I guess I just had hoped that my ex would have acknowledged our anniversary but I really didn't expect him to this year anyway.
A strange thing did happen tho, when I got back home on caller ID my ex MIL had called on Friday, the day of our anniversary at about 2:30 in the afternoon. She did not leave a message. Now I thought that was very strange since she never remembered our anniversary when we were married. I don't know why she would call me, she was mad at me for what I did to her son. Of course I was made out to look like I was the bad person for me "draining" him in the divorce. H's words! I have no ideal what she wanted or why she called. I just thought that was different.
I hope you both have a wonderful week!! (((HUGS)))
Hi nlt, Hmmm - very interesting that your MIL called you on your anniversary. That is nice though. There still seems to be some kind of connection with your H. Hugs to you.
I thought it was interesting also. I doubt she remembered it was our anniversary but then again who knows. She never remembered it before her stroke & sure didn't after.
Hi Nit sorry you had no aknowledgement of the day, but you have to remember that whilst you are standing this man is now your X husband and he has a new wife and a new anniversary so his thinking of dates etc will not be what yours are. Really what could he say if he had sent a card? even if he no longer thinks of you as his wife he would probably know that you would be feeling down on that day and he felt doing nothing was the best option. Not sure how many 2nd wives would want their husbands sending anniversary cards to first wife. They are quite a few of them on these boards. It might help if you view him as an x even if you are still hoping for him to return. After all it won't be anytime soon as he would have to break up and divorce wife no.2. That takes time. Did you hear back or call your xmil? Maybe she just wanted to reconnect or just a complete coincidence she picked that date. Keep galing and trying to enjoy the life you have now.
