lis- Thank you. You asked if you could help in any way....I have a question for all of you. What makes you happy? Truly happy? I don't want the general answer of "my kids", etc. I'm looking for something that you would "do" on a day knowing if you do, it will make you happy. I need guy input. I know what makes me happy, but I am a girl.
H4h- I wish ur wife had someone else in her life really in her corner. I had that problem, too. Only my egf giving me advice. Beej...nice....kinda like that one.
kat- I think ur right the spiral down was somewhat slow. I guess I do remember my parents saying something, but it was more anger for backing away from them than worry for me. Yes, I am definitely a work in progress!!! Thanks for your words.
Jeff- I think I'm lucky to have met you on here. You and the "gang" have really been a Godsend to me. (((hugs))))