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[AliSuddenly]

Hey Dawn,

In answer to your question... I could do the going-to-bed-when-he-does 180 again, but it's never gotten any easier for me, and I'm not sure there's any point to it from his perspective. Sigh. I would be pleased to get opinions on whether it's worth the trouble to try again. I have been trying to go to bed earlier for myself, because I know it is healthier for me...

Absolutely !!!! You have to get a hold of this, I thikn its really important for the future of your M, assuming the ow goes one day, that you and your H keep the same hours, so start practicing now! Passing like ships in the night is not going to be healthy for your R at any time and especially not right now. You are making it easy for him to lead a separate life, kind of colluding if you will. Also, I thikn for yourself you should get into a healthier timeframe. You say its to do with work, but if you can get to bed earlier, you can start in teh day earlier (hard with creative things, I know, my brain wakes up after 10 pm too!).

I have always struggled with my body clock and my natural one is probs 2.30am - 11 am ish, but that doesnt suit a working day. I was complaining to someone about this and they said do you know what the cure is? SET YOUR ALARM. So, ok, you cant go to bed till late, but if you set your alarm at a reasonable hour, like 8am, you will wake up and gradually you will need to get to bed earlier, you will reset your body clock.

As for the play, I cant imagine he would 'bring' her, but maybe she will surely be there in a back row or something?? Do you not know what she looks like? DO you have to go to all of the shows?
Ali xxx