As for the losses the kids suffer - Losing the family home is just one part of a big tragedy. They've lost daily contact with their father. They've lost trust in the adults that were their parents. They've lost their college funds. They've lost their soccer coach. They've lost family vacations. They've lost much, and it won't stop.
In my opinion they are the only losers at the end of the day.
I mourn the loss of engagements ,weddings, Grandchildren - all occasions that should be shared by parents together. Instead our kids will have to constantly watch what they say, who they invite, where they will sit people at tables, be worried how mum and dad are going to get along, who to have xmas with and the list goes on.
The best we can do is make it easier for them whenever possible.
I know as time goes on like all things we adapt. It is not what we signed up for but it is reality.
Today I am quite angry with H and for no other reason other than he is an A$%^. Today i want him to hurt so bad about what he is doing that I cant think straight. I feel to hell with Dbing. Let him see what he has lost. If he rang me up today to say let start again I would refuse. Nothing has happened, it is just that I see him for what he is at the moment. Spineless man / victim. He thinks everyone is going to feel sorry for him when they learn the full truth. I think not. Most people are sick of it and how he is acting --the victim. He will loose so much and he is to dumb and stupid and selfish to see it.
I might feel better in the morning. Who knows on this rollercoaster.
