yes, we all know I suffer from over-pursuancitis. a lot of people here just met their spouse and got married right away, or dated for several years and then got married; I knew my wife for years, always wanted to marry her, and as soon as we got together, we got married. a little bit of both, with some extra thrown in. I regret rushing into things, without a doubt. but I married for the right reasons; I adore her and always wanted to be with her. all these reasons have made the past 4 months (today is 4 months to the day that I found out about the PA/EA and moved out) really hard, and said reasons are why I am so eager to jump back into the pool of sharks. its tough.
M 31 W 26 M 6 S 6 S 3 Separated 6/2008 Back together 10/2008 All you need is love