All very positive updates! Funny we both got ILYs yesterday though I'd say your day was a little more positive;). Sounds like you left him with lots of positive memories in any case.
I think your idea not to say ILY very often is a good one.Would you consider not saying it at all unless he does first? Or maybe you don't think this is necessary in you sitch.
You gave him the letter, and he's obviously read it, and still called you. So the letter must have been a good thing :).
Hang in there Daisy-you're doing so well!!!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!