Wow, Txmom alot of support over here. You do sound like a take charge Mom and H thinks you can handle everything. I too was still being needy with H about D about house etc. This stops. Tomorrow I need to go on road trip for work, I am not telling my H, if he calls I will not pick up. I did mention this to H about 2 weeks ago. I will act like I do not have to remind him. My D knows how to reach me. I like that charge neutral. I need to read more on this. We do all this research while the Hs stumble in their fog. Education gives us power. What did it say in the DB book, stop fighting with your spouse and start fighting for your marriage. Hard to wrap my head around that sometimes but it makes sense.
JGrind, if you can possibly run into the H's friend, I would attempt it. If you have to pick up the phone and call then I would say no. I know we are looking for advocates for our cause. It is tough.
take care all.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
