I'm so sorry, I had hopedd once that friend moved out that things would get better!! If he stays away I think it will. I think you are so right to put a time frame with no one in the house after a certain hour. Also, those kids need to help you!!
I don't have kids so I don't have any good advice, but I sure can support you!! I hope the talked with S that H had will really help the sitch.
