Steve- I do not plan on talking to him at all..we do have soccer exchange on saturday and kids...I will see if I can arrange where we dont see each other..Not sure if that will work. I do hope she feels like a fool.... how dare her ask me if I have any self respect...to walk away. I wasnt leaving while he was saying I love you...( my heart will always love him..just not what he has done.) I hope this ruins her trust..I know when we were together I did wonder who, what , when ,why and where.... Im sure she is racking her brain thinking of when he wasnt by her side..how he could have been texting and flirting with me...lol
Native- I definately know my marriage that was..is now long gone. I cant even think clearly on "if " he ever came back because I just dont see him being willing to ask for forgiveness. You are 100% dead on with me taking on too much and being the housemaid and not the seductress...
I did find that woman..in the early part of our separation before I found out about her. For that I am thankful, that all the changes were for me and him without any influences of another woman.
Puppy- I do feel a bit of closure tonight. That if this is truely it...I was able to be the one to make the decision. I knew exactly how he would react..but told her anyway. I was not going to let him tell me if I told her he definately would be done... he wasnt with me..what was I losing anyway...
