Man im sorry, i missed the part about the ring. I know that has to hurt u so bad. My thoughts are the same as your why if there is a poss they could be happy would they not try again. But i also know my W does deserve to be happy. I mean really happy. Thats her plung that she is making though. Will we still be waiting. Who knows, we may be thru the toughest heart ace by then and honestly 100% ready to move on. If so then that will be there lose, not ours because our lose was along time ago, and for a lot longer than theres.
Just keep ur head up, visit the kids away from her if its to hard. Just focuse on them at this point. LE please for me just do it for the kids, away from her. Today has really been hard for me, daughter is and adult now. I missed so much of her child hood growing, games, missed opportunities just to play with her because i was absorbed in work, or just to dang lazy. I regret so much of it, wish i could just get a year of it back to make up for. Dont miss any chances, and u wont regret anything. We are here for u, u guys guide me when i need it. I know ur heart is broken now, just try to put that part aside for awhile. I know listen to me try to tell u that, i think u have told me that first. Just cherish every chance u get with them. U cant change anything that W does, but u can be the one that the kids know they can count on. Im thinking about u and ur family, will say a few prayers for u tonight. Take care
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
