Originally Posted By: needlove
My goal is probably too broad for DBing. I want to live life well and raise an amazing daughter. How to do that? How is it defined for me? By succeeding in my profession and concentrating on all the positives around me. I would love for him to look back one day and say, "man, how could I give that up?"

Childish and not focused enough, perhaps. Knowing deep down in my heart I gave it my all and that I will survive is priceless.


needlove,

I know how you feel.... I am 2 credits shy of having all of my credits for my CPA.... After I pass all four CPA exams, I am going to get my JD and take the CA Bar...... Not to become a hardcore litigator..... Just to make myself more attractive to my clients.... Understanding law is always helpful in business... So, already have my BS and MCIS... I will hopefully someday have my CPA, JD and be a member of the CA Bar...

Do I think my exW will look back someday and wonder "What the hell was I thinking?" I KNOW she will.... NOT because some women think I am a nice looking guy... NOT because some people think I am intelligent..... NOT because some people think I am successful (whatever that really is).....

Rather, she WILL REGRET because she will look back and see a faithful man who loved her with all of him... Who wanted to work hard on the marriage..... Who would not have traded her for anything or ANY other woman (NOT EVEN Catherine Bell )... I believe most women would find this priceless...

RMG

Last edited by RMG; 10/15/08 03:26 AM.
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