LE - one thing to realize here while you are having a bad day is that we all love and accept you here for who you are, wrinkles and all. Never forget that your W is really emotionally struggling, as are you. You need to surround yourself with people who accept you without conditions or expecting something from you. That will give you the love you need and help you not be as upset with W's actions. KNow it is hard but trust me on this. Do not critize her even to your friends. Focus on telling the truth about you and feeling the love they give you. It is liberating.
Stay strong. You are a good man who loves his kids and have a fab life ahead of you.
