The way I figure it, I have a good life ahead of me, right girl or not
Just the exact answer I expected from you.
Ha Ha you desreve better than what you have been dealt.
Knowing my h wouldn't as well is eaxctly the problem .To a certain extent you know you have your H in the wings.
No - nothing to do with me. It was definitly in the way he spoke, he stopped talking about future, using the word ours and us. He started making plans about his future and I was not included. Lots and lots of little things.
I think you should try it. Not thinking you should take up with someone if you are not ready and you definitly dont want to use anyone. Just somehow get some hints out to her.
You got nothing to lose now.
I think your wife sounds like me in some ways. Would like to see where head is at. i know she needs to stand on her own 2 feet and feel in control of her life and maybe once all the yuk side of divorce is over , things will become clearer. Shame kids lose there family home tough BUT you never know it is a small price to pay if there parents can get back together.
