For the Guy with Kids and a WW Diez y Seis

[hopeful4her]

I do.

And I like finding ladies that like their rock harder. Most I meet like mostly pop or country.

Don't get me wrong, I like it all, but I love rock.

[JoieDeVivre]

I'm your woman! Give me some Buckcherry, Papa Roach or Shinedown! I was in the pit at a concert last week to see Papa Roach, Seether and Staind!!

[hopeful4her]

Sweet! I have to admit, I have never been in a pit.

That must have been a kick ass concert. I wish I could have seen Audioslave when they came to Houston a couple years ago. I let the wife go with a EGF.

I had a chance to go see Seether a few weeks ago, but I was at a point of not being able to go alone. Couldn't find a guy friend and the alphabet girls were all busy.

I would do it alone now.

[yenko69]

Seether is great in concert. I saw them a couple years ago at Rockfest in KC. Went last year and Godsmack was incredible. 12 hours of music. Took SD17 both times, then we had a falling out with her though. Still fun though.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=olmlEaMf2wg&feature=related

[hopeful4her]

Next time something like that comes to the Verizon outdoor, I'm definatly there.

[hopeful4her]

Okay, I already got bonked, chatting with kat.

I did buy the book today and left it at the wife's apartment with some money I told her I would repay her. I went and visited the kids and left before she got off work.

I never got a response email from her. I did leave work early, but checked my work email from home about an hour ago. The girls forgot to call me again tonight. I even reminded them today when I saw them. I'll call them in the morning before school.

NOW I'll pull back and let her be. I did what I felt I needed to. Now back to me.

[LL44]

Hate feeling lonely. I am missing affection. Missing touch. I've been praying for her to pull at it. Then I can just let her keep pulling at it.

Oh I hear ya mister. But you are doing everything right. Funny how it doesn't feel right, but it is.

[hopeful4her]

You got that right. I'm sure plenty would disagree with the "doing everything right" part.

I haven't kept up with ya'. Looks like an important day coming up. Everything still headed towards the same?

[LL44]

Well, I think you are approaching your situation with your WAW with love/empathy, but enough distance to keep you sane. Who can disagree with that?

Everything still headed towards the same?

Sadly yes. H hasn't thrown himself on the atty's table begging for another chance, so yes. I will be back on the market in less than 48 hours. Too bad I still love my husband, huh?

But I have to do this. I have to go through with it. I cannot continue to be married to someone who has so clearly moved on.

[hopeful4her]

Well thanks. I do appreciate the words. Sometimes, its just so hard. I love her, see her moving on, want to keep trying to save it, and then keep being tempted to move on myself.

If I could only take my own advice. Just drop her and see where it goes. Thats what I'm gonna have to do.

Sadly yes. H hasn't thrown himself on the atty's table begging for another chance, so yes. I will be back on the market in less than 48 hours. Too bad I still love my husband, huh?

Now, wouldn't that be a sight?

I have always told myself that it would NOT be me to file. Its gonna have to be her, but then I keep thinking...how long would I let her keep me in a limbo stage?

That would be tough. Good luck, tomorrow.
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