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Without you realising she could be confident that you are available to her.


So far I have given her no indication that I have moved on, to a new relationship. If she knows me, she knows I will not. She had her friends ask about me earlier in the year - checking up on me.

Wanted to add that I decided not to pursue a relationship with the goal of "seeing if it affects her." That's not my style. I'll pursue a new relationship when I want one.

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When he left a few months ago it was very very different and I worry every day that there could be another woman entering our lives. Again nothing in what he said , it is all in the attitude.

I wonder how much of this was YOU and how much of it was his actions. Seems like it was something that changed in you.

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I am sure that you have many years ahead to enjoy a fantastic life with the right girl.

Thanks for the words of support! The way I figure it, I have a good life ahead of me, right girl or not.