brokenhearted, yes, I totally believe that now. I don't want someone to complete my life, or even take care of me. I (eventually) want someone to share my life, to enjoy being together, with me.
Quote:
Lwb, you are a wonderful woman and a loving mother, with a great head on your shoulders, intelligent and witty, strong in your convictions and in your morals, with a heart that just glows.
Wow. Nocode, that is the nicest thing anyone has said to me in a long long time. Thank you so much.
Today H and I met at the atty (H was late, probably cost us $100). We signed all the paperwork, got the documents in order. All we have to do is show up on Thursday. The bad news is we will be seen anytime between 10am-1pm, have to be there that entire time, but don't know when we'll be called. UGH Sitting in a room with H and other miserable couples. lol Not my idea of a good time. But it'll be said and done after that. Wow. Just wow. Out of body experience almost.
I am making plans for the house (some furniture purchases, and lots of painting). I have been organizing the unfinished part of the basement, packing H's stuff. I don't expect him to take it right away, but will move out to a corner. I can't wait to be organized.
H asked me to make a list of our (my?) house bills, and has spent the day on the phone getting the bills lowered (Internet, cable, phone, etc). Guilt in action.
