Hey W2G....gosh, I can understand your reluctance and I admire your strength in saying you might not go! Thats brilliant. Its kind of positive though isnt it? (hugely?) that he is prepared to have you there at his side at such a public event? Kind of perverse too, seeing as he continues to lead the bachelor life.
I was sad to hear you say he slept in and called at 12.15 and you dont believe it... I guess looking back there were all kinds of clues in my sitch that I wasnt connecting the dots and so I never asked him if there was an ow (and he would probably have lied anyway). Is that what you are suspecting here, or just that he is making excuses when really he just wanted his space and didnt want to come over, but didnt want to tell you that?
Its amazing how your sitch continues in the same vein and you are continuing in your patient manner. Your H is a lucky man.
Shame about your house.. and more banks have gone under here... Ali xxxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread