however we have been home now for a few hours and nothing, not even an attempt to touch me in any way shape or form. I just feel sometimes that its all lips service, and when it comes down to the actions nothing.
He may be feeling very uncomfortable, guilty and even stupid about this whole thing. Keep expectations low. Be generous, kind, and be a good listener.... but let him have his space. You both need time to heal.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
