In Boulder County in Colorado where I live, cutting you off monetarily is considered domestic violence. Well, that's what my counselor told me when I brought that up a couple years ago when wanting to enforce good behavior on my W's part. Remember as a cop, if he gets a domestic violence conviction, he may lose the ability to own and handle handguns which would then leave him out of a job. You need to get to a lawyer and get his a$$ straightened out.
Ladybug, you are strong enough and tough enough to do this. It hurts up a storm and is awful, but, you don't have to move and he has to pay, but, you have to get the law involved. If he doesn't want to pay, they can garnish his pay and that isn't going to look to good at work. Stop playing by his playbook. Get a lawyer involved, NOW.
